tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6020099647940696614.post5610169260773540834..comments2023-07-15T06:28:21.988-06:00Comments on Dragon on a Mission: Where did our passion go?Al Diazhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08107619009321980764noreply@blogger.comBlogger31125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6020099647940696614.post-19089371087658471172014-10-29T05:36:51.512-06:002014-10-29T05:36:51.512-06:00Hey you!
So good to see you drop by my place the ...Hey you!<br /><br />So good to see you drop by my place the other day. You know, my muse left me during my difficult blue period...she just got tired of waiting for me to give her attention. But I was not of the mindset at the time, and my other muses of music, art, etc., eventually dropped away, too. My blue period is ending, and what's to stop me from finding different muses? Or welcoming the old ones back?<br /><br />Thing is, I know all unfolds as it should—as it's meant to unfold. And now, I'm ready to start "dating" muses again. To each, their own...you are a creative soul, and your talent will shine, whether in painting, sculpture, or writing. There will come a time that one of your drawings wants a description...and you and your muse will sit at the table once again and write it out. And, divorced or not, I'm always your friend. :)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10092074709852502322noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6020099647940696614.post-35515147667410105602014-10-28T17:02:51.973-06:002014-10-28T17:02:51.973-06:00You wrote that very well! For myself, I stifle my ...You wrote that very well! For myself, I stifle my muse in a couple of ways- I either compare him to others and hurt his feelings, I tell him he sucks and make him hate me, or I nag him about money and ask him to produce something that sells. Not very nice of me, but I do it, and he alwasy takes a hike. I can't really blame him. That's pretty mean of me. Elizabeth Seckmanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00045076826326574984noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6020099647940696614.post-33864282583038967002014-10-15T14:24:58.226-05:002014-10-15T14:24:58.226-05:00Great questions. The Muse just left to get a cup o...Great questions. The Muse just left to get a cup of coffee and she'll be back better than ever. ;)Maurice Mitchellhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15338165486757095191noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6020099647940696614.post-24468403815464585262014-10-15T10:26:24.255-05:002014-10-15T10:26:24.255-05:00Muses are fickle creatures. I think mine is a drun...Muses are fickle creatures. I think mine is a drunk. I know where to find it if I lose it, but then it's intoxicated (distracted) by so many things that we can't focus. At least we don't fight like we used to. You're a great dragon and an ever better friend, Al. Wherever your art takes you, whichever brings you the most joy, follow that muse. :)David P. Kinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17259276981865439853noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6020099647940696614.post-83699432233772967472014-10-08T10:59:13.166-05:002014-10-08T10:59:13.166-05:00I'll be your friend whether you're writing...I'll be your friend whether you're writing or not. I just hope you haven't let doubt and insecurity break up you and your muse. I'd bet a month of book royalties your writing is better than you think it is. ;)<br /><br />Of course, you could always take the Ninja's advice and light her ass on fire. xDMelissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08516493326566981116noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6020099647940696614.post-6965062006282919752014-10-03T13:40:27.153-05:002014-10-03T13:40:27.153-05:00Groveling has worked for me in the past. Then I us...Groveling has worked for me in the past. Then I usually write some bad poetry and she's so infuriated by that, that she pushes me away from the computer and takes over. That's perfect, you see. While she slaves away at the stalled project, I kick back with a good book someone else has sweated over. cleemckenziehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15456109243453726483noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6020099647940696614.post-11368053730825335862014-10-03T12:36:24.852-05:002014-10-03T12:36:24.852-05:00Maybe she cut and colored her hair, and you just d...Maybe she cut and colored her hair, and you just don't recognize her as the one having a picnic just outside your cave. You might try offering her a nice basket of apples. She might take a bite and give you that winning smile. Loni Townsendhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05126958230703180761noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6020099647940696614.post-88118079165864570562014-10-03T07:33:26.696-05:002014-10-03T07:33:26.696-05:00As a writer, I shouldn't say this *looking for...As a writer, I shouldn't say this *looking for the crowd with torches and pitch forks*. . .sometimes muses change just as life changes or at least, they seem to go dormant for a while. I say this because my piano/music muse did that to me. It was my passion for many years - I even was paid a little to play at different things, directed choirs and wrote my own music (a children's musical even). But then my muse went silent. It sounds harsh, but I don't miss her right now either. She'll come back someday. I know she will, but right now, other muses are on center stage. . .no better or worse. I enjoyed my other muse, but I love the new ones as well. And I don't believe any of them or more or less worthy than the others. Just different. Embrace life's variety.Tonja Dreckerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07683717853264134466noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6020099647940696614.post-12388242337078749472014-10-01T22:07:20.577-05:002014-10-01T22:07:20.577-05:00Muses are so touchy and temperamental. They do lea...Muses are so touchy and temperamental. They do leave, but pop back into our lives when we least expect them to. Just keep breathing, Keep steady and stop riddling yourself with anxiety. Remember a woman likes a strong, but sensitive man. You abound in heart, passion, and sensitivity. Let her feel you strength now. You are a MIGHTY DRAGON....need I say more.Michael Di Gesuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17047267262428143113noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6020099647940696614.post-58587797255174937702014-10-01T20:31:26.867-05:002014-10-01T20:31:26.867-05:00Maybe she's just sleeping? At any rate, keep ...Maybe she's just sleeping? At any rate, keep playing with the muses who do talk to you, and I bet she'll get jealous and return! :)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00700737187405826842noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6020099647940696614.post-66132554684295798992014-10-01T20:04:15.822-05:002014-10-01T20:04:15.822-05:00A fine wine, a blank page and determination to win...A fine wine, a blank page and determination to win her back. People do change in my opinion so I hope you make up with your muse or learn to be happy with the other artsy parts of yourself.Susan Gourley/Kelleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02669793865290876168noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6020099647940696614.post-79933064348583264332014-10-01T19:16:34.116-05:002014-10-01T19:16:34.116-05:00Awe, this post made me feel a little sad for both ...Awe, this post made me feel a little sad for both you and your muse.<br /><br />Personally, I hate rules. I know, I know, they are necessary or we have chaos, but I like chaos, at least organized chaos and so does my muse. When I get into that 'this is no good' slump, because I know that I'm doing all those things 'the books' tell us not to, I let my muse remind me of all those great authors who broke the rules and started to set new ones.<br /><br />Don't know if any of that helps, I at least hope you are getting on well with the other creative muses. BTW, just reading this post, says to me that your 'writing muse' is at the very least peaking over your shoulder at this very moment.farawayeyeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17578277501054242356noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6020099647940696614.post-11195086486041087122014-10-01T18:22:58.451-05:002014-10-01T18:22:58.451-05:00Oh Father Dragon, I've all these comments so ...Oh Father Dragon, I've all these comments so far and I must agree with them. You cannot stifle your muse or 'talk AT her, trying to improve her'. Sometimes it's just best to listen and let her take you where she will. You might find yourself surprised at where you end up. I know I've been when I just let go and started writing. <br /><br />I did like the winged flight to a castle with the dinner on castle walls too. That would definitely earn you some brownie points in my book. Much love, EvaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6020099647940696614.post-79974599451761466412014-10-01T18:22:50.188-05:002014-10-01T18:22:50.188-05:00She'll be back. They always come back. It migh...She'll be back. They always come back. It might be a few months, or even a few years, and you'll be reunited like long lost friends. Christine Rainshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08263694662585963900noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6020099647940696614.post-39181579638273727822014-10-01T16:49:16.301-05:002014-10-01T16:49:16.301-05:00I think sometimes muses really like it when you ju...I think sometimes muses really like it when you just listen to them instead of doing the talking.LD Mastersonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01202135756299574972noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6020099647940696614.post-22056831238956866112014-10-01T16:18:48.776-05:002014-10-01T16:18:48.776-05:00If I read this correctly, she took flight because ...If I read this correctly, she took flight because she felt stifled by all of the rules. I would send her a letter telling her that I intend to let her flow. No rules. Maybe it is like that old saying about loving something and setting it free. It it comes back, it is yours. If if doesn't, it never was. (I think she'll come back:)Robinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14932408372240147454noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6020099647940696614.post-19916367830838322202014-10-01T15:35:45.901-05:002014-10-01T15:35:45.901-05:00I like Alex's final solution. Not being a writ...I like Alex's final solution. Not being a writer myself, I don't have to deal with muses. In fact I usually don't read ISWG posts.Johttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14087140585742801854noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6020099647940696614.post-15113383470160730882014-10-01T15:27:03.073-05:002014-10-01T15:27:03.073-05:00I feel your muse may just have gone on vacation. A...I feel your muse may just have gone on vacation. A dragon muse will need to stretch her wings and soar. I am sure that when you least expect her she will swoop down and embrace you once more. In the meantime enjoy spending time with your other creative muses, this may even make writing muse a little jealous and she will hasten her return to the cave. Suzanne Furnesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00908200156114453054noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6020099647940696614.post-80695554420810594502014-10-01T14:31:00.020-05:002014-10-01T14:31:00.020-05:00Your creativity is integral to you. As much a par...Your creativity is integral to you. As much a part of you as your huge dragon heart. Your writing muse will come back, particularly when she sees how nicely you play with all the other muses. Give her time - and welcome her home again.Elephant's Childhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06650565833097914052noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6020099647940696614.post-32153875617900338902014-10-01T11:54:10.755-05:002014-10-01T11:54:10.755-05:00Wow, that sounds like it was a really hard experie...Wow, that sounds like it was a really hard experience for you to go through. I'm so sorry. Muses can be fickle creatures. It never hurts to try to reach out though - see if maybe there's another project you can get her interested in? S. L. Hennessyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06514651403542719387noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6020099647940696614.post-75721502626507432032014-10-01T11:45:03.278-05:002014-10-01T11:45:03.278-05:00Buy her dinner and wine - it can only help.
I los...Buy her dinner and wine - it can only help.<br /><br />I lost my passion for photography a while back. Stopped taking pictures professionally and eventually stopped taking them for fun. Even dropped out of our photo club. But taking photos was something I've always done, so I still was now and then. And little by little, the urge to take creative shots came back. Your muse will come back as long as you keep giving her a path, however small.L. Diane Wolfehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06425864276166334896noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6020099647940696614.post-89319221327253750362014-10-01T11:41:40.975-05:002014-10-01T11:41:40.975-05:00My muse and I have "falling outs" all th...My muse and I have "falling outs" all the time. Its frustrating, and sometimes I feel it is an unhealthy relationship. But its a working relationship, and even though we sometimes have to take time apart and explore other creative outlets, we know in our hearts the separations are temporary. Give it time, and exercise your generous smile each time that WIP winks at you.dolorahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08715849844092553699noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6020099647940696614.post-78275826235492347112014-10-01T11:03:17.178-05:002014-10-01T11:03:17.178-05:00Oh dear FD, I have a feeling apologizing to your w...Oh dear FD, I have a feeling apologizing to your writing muse won't be as hard as you think. I think you should begin by writing her a letter. I hear you when it comes to "trying to improve" her voice, and have found my love for my own muse diminished when I tried to do this as well. So, I've stopped trying to make "her" better and to write from my heart. Write what I want to read, write what my muse says must be written. Start with a letter to her, oh great wise one, and see where you go, where she might take you...Lisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06658507579160418855noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6020099647940696614.post-35758115696852046422014-10-01T09:59:33.524-05:002014-10-01T09:59:33.524-05:00Hi Al - looks like Father Dragon needs to remember...Hi Al - looks like Father Dragon needs to remember how to bow and scrape before his muse - perhaps a winged flight to a castle, a gorgeous dinner on the castle walls with the sunset easing its light years away in the distance - then you can light up her surrounds ... and she will let you dream new passions ... and you'll be able to remember them ... <br /><br />Cheers ... it will return ... take care ... HilaryHilary Melton-Butcherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17596532480645510678noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6020099647940696614.post-64605181838548311182014-10-01T09:39:00.952-05:002014-10-01T09:39:00.952-05:00I feel like my muse and I aren't talking anymo...I feel like my muse and I aren't talking anymore and it's kind of heartbreaking. I think he just got sick of my "woe is me" attitude. It's good that you have more than one muse to make you feel better.Sarah Fosterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09481750127533816819noreply@blogger.com